Are We Raising Kids for Life — or Just for School?

Parenting expert Dr Rosina McAlpine interviewed on ABC Radio

What if everything we thought about parenting missed the bigger picture? In this thought-provoking radio interview, Dr Rosina McAlpine family and wellbeing expert challenges the way we prepare children for the future—and her insights may surprise you.

Speaking ahead of her keynote in the United States, Dr Rosina shifts the focus from traditional parenting approaches—discipline, rewards, and punishment—to something far more impactful: life skills. She paints a compelling “helicopter view” of what raising a child should involve—helping them navigate emotions, relationships, resilience, and real-world challenges.

Drawing on decades of experience, she highlights a concerning trend: rising levels of anxiety, depression, bullying, and disengagement among children. Despite academic focus, something isn’t adding up. Are we neglecting the “whole child” in pursuit of grades?

The conversation also dives into the age-old debate of nature versus nurture. While genetics play a role, Dr Rosina makes a strong case that skills like empathy, leadership, and emotional regulation can - and should- be taught.

Perhaps most compelling is her call for “teacher-family partnerships” - a collaborative model where parents, educators, and communities align to support children with consistent messages and shared values.

This interview is a must-listen for anyone invested in raising confident, capable kids in a complex world.